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EricPsychic Eric :

I am in a romantic dilemma. I have been with the same partner for several years and we have a very good relationship. But recently I have been focusing my life on my spirituality and that isn't a very serious interest for my current partner. Late last year I met someone at one of the group meetings and we really connected spiritually. I love my current partner but I see our worlds quickly drifting apart. I am concerned that if I allow the connection with this new person to strengthen, that it will be the end of my current relationship. What should I do?

Judy, Henderson / Nevada:

Dear Judy,

Thank you for your question! My guides step forward with the following information.

I am glad to hear that you described your relation as "very good". As your will learn through your studies, we all must walk our own path, at our own pace. I feel that your partner has a negative attitude toward spirituality because religion was forced upon him as a child. With your request for him to join you, he feels that religion is being pushed on him yet again. Explain to him that spirituality is not religion, but an exploration of one's self.

Also, I feel that you have asked him "once" to join you....and then simply gave up. He needs to know that you miss him when he is not there. Your partner will understand the feeling of being "missed", because he misses you. He can tell you have emotionally pulled away....and he does not know why.

As I am sure you are aware, being in a long term relationship requires compromise. Try to work out a deal.....he joins you for a meeting, and you will join him for a activity that may not be your favorite. He will come around in time.

I believe you when you say that you do not want your world to drift apart with your current partner, or you would not have written this letter. Focus on your current relationship and remember that the key to happiness is understanding that we all have our own valid perspective.

Blessings,
Eric

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Psychic Kileen,Kileen

How do I know the difference between a message that's coming from my head (ego) and one that'scoming from my heart (intuition)? I'm always trying to follow my heart-spaced wisdom, but all too often my head gets in the way and tries to masquerade as the wise one, even though down deep I know better. If you have any tricks on how to decipher the difference and get truly in tune with that glorious intuitive side, I'd be most grateful :).

Mentally yours, The Thinker-Feeler

Dear The Thinker-Feeler,

You have asked one of the most pondered on questions...how do we Really know the difference between the Ego and the Higher Self?

My guides share this information with us:

The minute that you are trying to logically understand the message, the action, the intention...you are in your ego. The simplest way to "call out" your ego is with a three letter word..."Why?"

Why am I doing this? Why do I feel this way? Why does this truth resonate with me? Why am I afraid to let go of my attachment to orchestrating my reality to match what I think it should be? This leads me to another Huge key to the language of the Ego versus the Higher Self.

The Ego thinks.

The Higher Self feels.

When you are struggling with deciphering where the information is originating...find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. Allow yourself to have an "out loud" conversation with yourself. You do not need to name the opposing "selves." Simply allow the conversation to happen naturally and observe the language. If the statements revolve around "I think" "I know" "It must be because of," then say hello to your Ego. If you observe that your statements begin with "I feel" "I trust" "I match," then trust that truth is coming through.

Yes, I know that you are thinking, "Well once I know that, won't my Ego start talking in Higher Self language?" And yes, your Ego maybe able to slip a few sentences in Higher Self language, but keep asking the question "why" and as you relax, allow and observe, the Ego will give in.

Checking how your body feels when you speak out loud is also another key. The words maybe false, but the feeling of truth and the feeling of falsehood do not Feel the same in the body. Close your eyes, place your right hand on your heart and speak the information in question. You will know if you are in truth or in falsehood by how your body reacts to the spoken word. Truth feels open, soft and expansive. Falsehood feels rigid, inward and tight.

The Ego is tricky but will back down when you stand tall with out being confrontational only observational.

Continue on your journey to yourself and remember that there is no where that you need to get to for balance, you are already there, you just don't realize it.

Love As One,
Kileen

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